Building a blended family is a journey filled with love, commitment, and, at times, legal complexities. For many Arizona families, step-parent adoption is a significant milestone that solidifies the bond between a child and a step-parent who has taken on the role of a dedicated and loving parent. However, when a biological parent is absent or unknown, the legal process can become more intricate.

At McMurdie Law & Mediation, we recently worked with a client facing this very challenge. A devoted step-father had been actively raising his step-son for years, forming a deep father-son bond. The biological father was never involved. In fact, when the young Mother became pregnant in high school, he refused to assist Mother in any way.  He never had contact or showed interest and met all the requirements for abandonment in the Arizona Statutes.

Now, the family wanted to seal their bond through step-parent adoption. In our Arizona Juvenile Courts, this is a two-part process: The first step requires terminating the parental rights of the disinterested legal parent and this often takes twice as long as the 2nd part of this case, the adoption process.

Legal Challenges in Arizona Step-parent Adoption

Step-parent adoption in Arizona is a beautiful way to provide children with legal security and a sense of belonging, but it requires following specific legal procedures. Before an adoption can proceed, the biological parents’ rights must be terminated. If the biological parent is willing to consent, this part of the process is straightforward. However, in cases like our client’s, where the biological father was absent and unknown—the process became more complex.

Since the biological father never wanted any involvement, and was not listed on the birth certificate, the Juvenile Court required Mother’s attorney to notify all possible fathers, known as John Does in the County of Matter, even though the known biological father resided in another state. This meant following Arizona’s strict rules of service, including publishing a legal notice of the case in a Maricopa County publication, such as the Arizona Business Gazette for 4 consecutive weeks. This step ensures that any potential biological father is given the opportunity to step forward before parental rights are terminated.  All states in America take Parental Rights very seriously.

In addition to the notice and service requirements, Arizona law mandates that every termination-adoption case involves a Best-interest Attorney (BIA) appointed by the court. This attorney represents the adoptive child’s interests, ensuring that the adoption is truly in their best interest and that all legal requirements have been met before proceeding.

How a Lawyer for Child Custody Can Assist in the Process

For families considering step-parent adoption, working with an experienced lawyer for child custody is essential. The legal process involves multiple steps, including:

  1. Filing the Adoption Petition – The step-parent, along with the custodial parent, must formally petition the court to begin the adoption process.
  2. Terminating Parental Rights – If the biological parent is absent or unknown, the court requires proof of due diligence in serving notice of the Court Petition and any scheduled hearing. This includes filing in local newspapers, such as the Arizona Business Gazette, to notify potential fathers if personal service of the known biological father is not completed.
  3. Court Hearings in Juvenile Court – All step-parent adoptions take place in Arizona’s Juvenile Court system. These hearings address the best interests of the child, whether the adoptive parent is able to take on the responsibility of the Child, and if the known biological parent has truly abandoned the Child.
  4. Working with a Best-Interest Attorney – A lawyer appointed for the child ensures that the adoption serves the child’s best interests, and conducting an interview of the Child and the parent and adoptive step-parent and can confirm to the Court that the step-parent is a suitable and responsible guardian.
  5. Finalizing the Adoption – Once all legal requirements are met, the Court grants the adoption, legally recognizing the stepparent as the child’s parent with all corresponding rights and responsibilities.

A New Beginning for the Family

In our client’s case, after successfully completing the due diligence process and satisfying the court’s legal requirements, the step-father was finally able to adopt his stepson at a second court process called the adoption process. This takes place at the adoption hearing which is always very celebratory.

For some, the journey to legal adoption happens much later in life. McMurdie Law once helped a 38-year-old man finalize his adoption by the step-mother who had raised him as her own. Wanting to formally recognize the love and commitment she had shown him for decades as his Step-Mother, he initiated the adoption himself to honor her as his legal mother. It was in fact, his Mother’s Day present to her. Whether adoption occurs in childhood or adulthood, the court hearing is often an emotional moment—one that cements a lifetime bond and acknowledges the depth of a parent’s love and dedication.

Arizona step-parent adoption can be a complex legal process, especially when dealing with unknown biological parents. However, with the right legal guidance, families can overcome these obstacles and create a secure, loving future for their children.

If you are a step-parent looking to adopt or need assistance with child custody and adoption matters in Arizona, contact McMurdie Law & Mediation today. Our experienced legal team is here to guide you through every step, ensuring that your family’s future is legally protected and filled with love.  These are very special cases for McMurdie Law and we would love to do many a year.